This will probably be one of the few times I talk about women on this channel; however, one can’t talk about living the life they want to live without mentioning the other sex as women will always be part of man’s existence. Now, this mistake is not the PUA or Dating Coach mistake that, once fixed, will get you all the pussy you ever wanted and make you the second coming of Leonardo DiCaprio or Dan Bilzerian.
No, this mistake is a deep rooted one that all men have made, are making, and will continue to make regardless of how many times I or someone else mentions it.
This mistake is turning women into a metric they have to hit.
See, most men want to have success with women, but no one has ever really defined what that means. All most dudes want is to be with one woman that won’t make their lives a living hell and get on their nerves 24/7. Most men are not out here smashing fifty to one hundred broads a month and living this corporate, high-flying lifestyle at the same time. It’s just not happening like that in the life of the average man. And to add insult to injury, there is a growing demographic of shitty broads proliferating throughout society imposing these outlandish and impossible metrics for the average man to hit while getting absolutely nothing in return.
So, when men say success with women my question is what the hell does that even mean? Every statistical metric in life that defines a winner has nothing to do with women in the first place. As the saying goes, ‘women wait at the finish line and fuck the winners.’
What’s the goal here? Are you trying to have sex with 10, 15, 20, 100, 150 women? Are you trying to have a five-woman roster? Are you trying to have threesomes on a consistent basis/ Are you trying to have a long lasting and healthy relationship? What is the goal?!
We all have one life on this earth and you’re going to waste it trying to hit metrics that don’t matter to you? Metrics that some broad that doesn’t like you at all has set in front of you as an attempt to buy her affection because she thinks you’re worth less than dry dog shit in the grass. Metrics that these broads would never set for the men they’re attracted to but set for you because they view you as less than? Seriously?!
Men have to realize that women are human beings and not automatons that can be bought, sold, and played with. These broads choose who they give it up to and who they want to ultimately be with. If you treat these women like objects that can be bought, they will treat you like a simp that can be sold. Whatever energy or vibe you put out is exactly what you get back and as long as you keep treating women like metrics to be hit, they will keep giving you metrics you can never hit no matter how hard you work.
Men, I’m going to say this one more time: Stop turning women into a metric you have to hit. Women have nothing to do with self-improvement and establishing the life you want for yourself. Women enter after you get established and to get mad at that reality is indicative of issues you have within yourself. Get over it! That’s how they operate and if you still want to deal with them, then you have to figure out what you want from them and focus only on that, ignoring all the shitty broads that try to get in the way.
Hope this helps,