On Being A Man

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It’s time we as men stop thinking of ourselves, our self value and self worth, in relation to how many women we sleep with. How many women we have around us. How many women we attract. How many women we can impress. How many women we can get approval and validation from. How many women are happy to be in our presence. And how many women would be thrilled to be our girlfriend.

This society has warped the minds of men into thinking that women are the center of existence and all their efforts, abilities, and attributes are secondary. This society has taught men that their value is strictly dependent upon externals and what they can do for other people. This society has taught men their needs, desires, and wants don’t matter.

And it’s time we break this ridiculous spell.

What it takes to be a man, a dominant man, has nothing to do with women. Women are a byproduct of a man being a man. As being a man means figuring out what you want in life and going after it relentlessly. Most men want a family and that’s fine. However, you need to figure out who you are and what you truly want to do for a living before you decide to get a woman to start a family with.

Being a man means being decisive, being set on your goals, dominating all aspects of YOUR life, not anyone else’s. Being a man means tailoring your life to suit you, tailoring your resources, your work, and your woman to YOU. To not try to be anyone else and to be the best version of yourself.

What the hell is going on here? We have men bowing down and kowtowing to women, licking their toes, eating their booty holes, kissing their asses (literally) and worshiping the ground they walk on like they’re god’s gift to man and the rest of the world.


Life is about more than just sex, marriage, and family (not to put down those that want that). Life is about finding your purpose, finding out what drives you, what motivates you, what sets an inextinguishable fire in your gut that will fuel you for years.

So, what is your purpose? What drives you other than your biology? How can you live with yourself knowing that your main hangup is women, getting sex from women, being with women, impressing and seeking validation from women.

How can you look yourself in the mirror and not see a chump, a simp, a beta male?

Disclaimer: nothing wrong with being a beta male. As long as you admit and accept what you are and make changes for the better.

This isn’t to put anyone down. This is to make people better. Figure out who you are and do what you actually want to do with your life.

Alright, that’s my spiel. Til next week!

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